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Emotion
Social Media: Publicize relationship or keep it secret?
Core Conflict: Posting = Security, claiming territory. Private = Privacy, avoiding 'jinxing it', keeping options open?
Decision Criteria
5
Security Needs
Does partner need validation?
4
Privacy Views
Don't want to be watched
4
Job Nature
Boss/Clients on Wechat
3
Territory
Block other suitors
3
Past Trauma
Embarrassed by past deletions
4
Grouping
Close friends only?
3
Reality
Faking it vs. Real happiness
5
Backup Suspc.
Are you hiding them to fish?
3
Social Pressure
Fear of judgment
2
Journaling
Just as a memory log
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